7. Staying High Vibe When You Deal with Shitty People & Situations
Episode 7: Staying High Vibe When You Deal with Shitty People & Situations
We’re changing the podcast name!
…we just aren’t sure what we’re changing the name to yet, lol. With Sprout + Sage falling to the wayside, we’ve outgrown the name for our podcast. Any suggestions?
Before we start, Gina does tarot card pull
Since Gina is a newbie to tarot card reading, she is using Biddy Tarot’s “Ultimate Guide to Tarot Card Readings” to help her read her cards. She pulled out her cards before we started recording, and these cards flew right out of the deck – and into her face!
Talk about getting smacked in the face by the Universe, huh?
1. 3 of Swords (Reversed) – Release of Pain/Optimism
Gina breaks through a personal and emotional block from some financial resentments in her marriage that caused her to not be where she wanted to be at 30 – her birthday is Friday! (Let’s all wish her a happy birthday!)
Forgiveness is for YOUR health & well being & relationships. You need to open your heart and release these resentments for you to truly have the space to move upward in your life.
2. 8 of Cups (Reversed) – Hopelessness/Aimless Drifting/Walking Away
Gina has been super low vibe this week and has been a little lost in her business lately. She sees this card as all of the emotional baggage she’s been releasing (seen in the 3 of Swords).
3. The High Priestess – Your Inner Guide is with you
Gina has been getting this for nearly EVERY card pull. This card is a reminder to sit in meditation and let her Inner Guide speak.
4. The Queen of Wands (Reversed) – Shrinking/Violent/Aggressive/Demanding
Gina has been WAY too abrasive in her communications lately as she’s been coming into her own and learning to let things come as they should.
5. The Star – Hope/Spirituality/Renewal/Serenity
This is the first time Gina has pulled this card, and it shows her the progression from her aggressive, closed-off self to having her Inner Guide and earthly mentors around her to support.
– How to Deal with Shitty People & Situations, So Your Vibe Stays High –
Get some coping mechanisms
One of the ways Gina draws comfort from the chaos of her life is through her tarot cards. She uses these as a tool for talking with God, as a new way to exchange a dialogue with the Universe. This helps her feel more at peace.
Don’t let the keyboard warriors get you down
They’re a bunch of bitches. You have so much more to worry about! Please, don’t let a bunch of low-vibe energy vampires steal your time and energy. It’s just not worth it.
Set healthy boundaries for yourself
Unfollow, unfriend, unsubscribe, lose their number, block their email – do what you need to do! Get yourself into a safe space. You have every right to protect your energy.
What’s your Myers-Briggs Personality Type?
The Myers-Briggs system is a well-known marker for personality types. Many employers use a Myers-Briggs outcome to help employees reach their highest potential in the workplace. We are INFJs – they’re very idealistic types, would you have guessed?
You can take the quiz at 16 Personalities, then let us know what your outcome is!
Remember, the chaos comes first, then the perspective.
Sit down, shut up, and wait – don’t be so reactive. You can learn a lot more and save yourself a world of energy wasted on stress if you just slow down and try to have some perspective before reacting.
Around 34:00, you’re going to hear my sweet birthday girl crying for Mama 🙁 It’s okay! Daddy’s got her, and Mama ended up rocking her to sleep after the podcast.
What’s your social media philosophy?
Gina: Generally just doesn’t comment on “controversial” shit or things that upset her online (the “keep scrolling” philosophy)
Tiffani: She’s a SJW – with a side of love & compassion. So while she uses her platform to talk about touchy issues, she’s not afraid to try to see things from the opposition’s perspective #empathlife
Gina & Tiffani both got rid of their blogs this week!
In another rebellious act following their Facebook Group deletions, we’ve both decided to kick our blogs to the curb this week, too. We’ve got different ways to reach our audience, and our hearts just aren’t in blogging – and there’s nothing wrong with that!
Who wants to help Tiffani learn how to preserve her psychic energy for intensive energy working sessions?
Honor yourself & re-charge your batteries. You are the only one who will make time for you – you’ve got to demand it! If you’re feeling psychically drained, you’re more than entitled to the relaxation time.
Gina’s tip: Lemongrass EO!
Social pressures & entrepreneurial pressures are intense – we don’t have to let them control us.
Be proud of what you’re doing – where you are right now. You don’t have to have the perfect social life, the perfect spiritual life, the perfect relationship with your body, the perfect partner, the perfect career – no one has this, despite their social presence suggesting otherwise.
Tiffani tells a story of magic on the farm (and cries)
Back when I was the Carrot Princess on the Big Island, I had a completely magical experience happen one day while working on the field. It was something I’ll never forget.
Take spontaneous, inspired action!
Exercise your confidence in the Universe by taking totally spontaneous, inspired action this week. Pull out your tarot cards and see which ones smack you in the face. Take a drive to nowhere in particular, asking God to guide your wheel.
The more you strengthen this muscle of trust-falling into the arms of the Universe, the more you’ll see miracles in your life.
Give us your ideas for the new podcast name!
And tune in next week for our guest, Growth Strategist & Success Coach Tara Bradford
www.tiffanipurdy.com // www.ginalambert.com